Experience

Rope can look many ways. A session can be a moving mediation, with the rope creating a variety of sensations to bring you into your body. For others, it’s a means of exploring trust, surrender, and release. For others still, rope is connected to their erotic core. A single session can include moments of introspection and somatic processing, pleasurable pressure sensations akin to massage, intentional high intensity sensations, potentially uncomfortable emotions such as shame, alongside laughter and silliness. Any and all of what you bring to a session is welcome.

A first session lasts 2.5-3 hours and begins with a conversation about your interests, desires, anxieties, and anything else that’s alive for you on the day. We’ll decide together what the session will look like and cover relevant safety considerations. I bring a depth of anatomical knowledge, movement literacy, and trauma-aware methodology to every session. When the rope is off we’ll take time to debrief, discussing anything exciting or surprising that came up.

These are not pro-domme sessions and do not include intentional erotic touch or explicit power exchange. I require a phone consult for all new clients so that both of us can do a vibe check before we meet!

  • Sessions cost $400 for one person wanting to be tied. This includes people coming solo or couples in which only one person wants to experience rope while the other wants to witness or participate without being tied. For groups of two to four people in which more than one person wants to be tied, please reach out to discuss session length and pricing.

    If we’ve worked together before and have developed some familiarity, you’re welcome to book a shorter 1.5-2hr session or sessions. Pricing as follows:

    • a 2-hr session for returning clients is $240

    • a pack of 3 sessions is $660

    • 5 session packs are available for $1000

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I’m available for private and small group lessons, both in-person and virtually. Let me support you with proper safety information, good technical skills, and insights into the je ne sais quois that draws people to rope even though a myriad of less complicated restraints can be easily found at your local sex shop or hardware store.

Rope bondage is just as much about the human experience of tying and being tied as it is the final position. It’s a “journey as destination” sort of thing. It’s also frustrating and fiddly and good at robbing newbies of their confidence. I’m here to ease the frustration and fiddling while offering you pathways to play at all levels. The following is a non-exhaustive list of topics we can cover:

For riggers (people who tie)

  • Beginner techniques through transitional suspension

  • Tension and rope handling skills

  • Confidence with improvisation

  • Harness troubleshooting and customization

  • Learning to see anatomy and tie your partner, not a pattern

  • Consults for tying curriculum development

For rope bottoms (people who get tied):

  • Identifying what you want/effective communication with the person tying you

  • Body awareness and differentiating between good/bad pain

  • Harness troubleshooting and customization

  • Bottom-lead rope experiences

  • Consults for bottoming curriculum development

  • I charge $100/hr for individuals and couples and $150/hr for groups of 3-4. I require a 2 hour minimum for each lesson. If you’re traveling a distance and wanting to book a full day or weekend of lessons, I offer discounted rates for lessons running more than 4 hours. If you don’t have a tying partner I may be able to arrange for an experienced bottom to join our lesson for an extra fee. Please be in touch with any questions!

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